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what are u supposed to do when someone mistakes your good intentions??

I loaned some dudes my money some time last year,after agreeing that they are going to pay back after some few months but upto now am yet to recieve it or any communication from them on when they are planning to pay back.this action has pissed me off and next time am going to think twice be4 saving anyones arse especially if its a guy.for really what makes a guy behave like that and what should i do ??( even though i think there is nothing i can do about it but just to learn the lesson)


Posted 42 days ago

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alisat 		it has ever happened to me but first try taliking to that person if he fails then call it abad debt

34 days ago

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tryinghard 		@kmpeter my exact sentiments. I have learnt money & friendship are poor bedfellows. Like Njeeri if i lend i prefer to think of it as giving it away because hustling for it will cause enemity more often than not. you correctly said you have learnt your lesson. Only give what you can afford to loose.

37 days ago

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kmpeter 		a point to live by is not to make other people's emergencies ur own. put in a qstn to the guy as to when he will pay, but be very cautious about money especially with friends. u will lose them when u lend them or u will lose the friends if u do not lend them. u can avoid this by getting someone else to lend them on ur behalf

40 days ago

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mmuigai 		@Themneks oh sorry,i also bailed someone 2 years back and all he does is to make unfulfilled promises.

All the same just be good but a bit cautious.As the first lady said,genuine people will suffer.

41 days ago

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Njeeri 		I normally give, then in my heart write it off as bad debts..so my dear, since you have not asked for him to pay back, ask him to do so. so that u know whether he is capable of paying back or not. The best thing you do, before giving out money esp a large sum you need to spelt out terms and conditions and write it down somewhere maybe in the presence of a third party..if that is too much then dont give out your money. however genuine people who maybe desparately in need may suffer.

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