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should i give in or wait for him ?

my boyfriend has been gone for 3years to another country n i miss him so much. there is this new guy i met (no sex though) . we spend so much time together n am starting to like him, some times am tempted to jus sleep with him coz i rily do miss it. so should i compromise or wait for him. please advice

Posted 40 days ago

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strawberryice
my dear, there are so many sides to this thing you speak off. First of all weigh your emotions, if you know you really love your boyfriend despite his being away then please just hold your horses. do you guys communicate and does he still feel the same about you? provided hes also deeply in love with you and still treats you as before then please wait for him. Even though its like you have no guarantee that hes being clean there and not doing girls, just have faith and hold on, cuz really if hes waitin for you and he comes back to meet you with another guy that will be too much betrayal, especially if like you he also had temptations and didnt yeild. Also remember that the more time you spend with someone provided the person is pleasant the more you will grow to like him, so you have to stop being close with this guy and since youve already even thought of sleeping with him you might not be able to resist the temptation, so just keep your distance. Remember that if you do, when your boyfriend returns this guy can create problems for your relationship. In a nut shell jst dont do it. good luck.xoxo

34 days ago

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Churisa
get off that 'company guy'. he will ruin your rather good relationship..buy a toy if you must

36 days ago

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mmuigai
Please,you are already putting yourself into temptations.You may not come out easily,if your man is still for you then wait.Do you communicate?,weigh your man first before starting to welcome others into your life,you may hurt him badly if he is also waiting.So wait untill you are sure he is not for you.

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kmpeter
does he also miss u and will he ever come back? i have seen some long distance relationships lat longer, it all depends on the commitment on both sides of the distance. do not be in a hurry to bed some other chap, he might be a fleeting cloud that can ruin a good relationship

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