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you know what! manze dont send me to hell. am a lady and am in love with my financial accounting lecturer.i always think of him and i really like this subject. he always throws jokes at me even in class n i kinda like his humour. am i sick or bewitched.am i stupid or what? i dont show it to him its just in my heart though.i cant coz he will surely kill send me packing.

Posted 34 days ago

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Tavel
You are petty fine and that really means you are anormal human being,,,,s be happy about it. If you can be his...you can always send signals without getting into trouble.

32 days ago

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Njeeri
Its normal to admire a really nice guy, you are not bewitched and neither stupid! but you gotta weigh things first..he is your lecturer for Godsake! some kind of relationships are not healthy and are illegal or going against work ethics. I am sure you are not the first gal to drool fover him, many have done that taking into account that he is humorous! so my dear, treat that as one fantasy especially if the guy is married. enjoy your classes his humor and control yourself not be sexually aroused! involving yourself with a lecturer in campus is such a huge mistakes. I have seen ladies who are given degrees by giving out their bodies: we used to call them STD's (sexually Transmitted Degrees) and the ladies are used, and the trend continues into work etc. Take caution. If the lecturer is not married, and is interested in you too, he will take a step and approach you..and if there should be a serious relationship, it must be when you are out of campus or he goes to teach in another university..its that serious! so for now hold your horses, stop thinking about him in a sexual manner, and enjoy his classes

32 days ago

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tryinghard
An attractive & humor filled guy is attractive to many girls and since i imagine you are quite young in college, finish your course first & if he approaches you after that think about your reputation in accounting 2 , ofcourse if he is married set your sights elsewhere as a matter of urgency. Don't worry "love" fades given an not conducive environment. & there is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with you. I fall in love even 3 times in a week with unattainable guys & i know i'm not bewitched, crazy or stupid - MJ tell them its human nature. finish 101 & look forward to 201. uoi don't want to be known as the girl who used to sleep with her lecturesrs. sawa dear? god luck

33 days ago

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Kiash
Hi finathesh.I dont believe your bewitched.We are human beings and such things are bond to happen.What you should ask yourself is,do you really love him?let me ask,is the lecturer married coz if he is ,you will be wasting your time and if he ain't,why don't you approach him in a nice way

34 days ago

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kmpeter
wait until yu finish the classes and then approach him. yu might want to find out if he is married, whether he has had affairs with students b4 etc. good luck

34 days ago

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strawberryice
i dont think youre crazy or stupid, i just think you might have a crush on him, such things happen. Probably you find him attractive and thats why you keep thinking about him, i dont think its love, cuz you may have to a person well to love him, know his habits and mannerisms and attitude and all and what you see in class cannot be all of him so i will place it as an attraction. Its happened to me before, it wasnt my lecturer but just a teacher in my secondary school, wasnt even teaching my class, just another class but he was so nice that i had a crush on him. just shake it off and concentrate on ur course ok? for all you know hes even married and dont tell him cuz if hes not thinking of you in that way it will spell doom.

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