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Do I telll her the hubby is cheating on her?

I recently realized that one of my close family friends who was transferred to another town is cheating on his wife, who remained in another town, with the kids since she is also working there. Although he goes to see her weekly or by-weekly, he is having a clande at his side all the time. Besides I suspect he sees other women as well since he frequents the pubs a lot and he says there are too many ladies there searching for men. I tried to advise him against it but he said its better to have one to keep his body cool.

What do I do? Do I keep silent, or tell the wife, and how? I also don’t want them to break coz of me or him to realize the wife learnt thr me. I decided to keep quiet over it but not sure whether its the right thing to do.

Posted 31 days ago

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Kiash
Whatever you don't know doesn't hurt.Leave it at that

16 days ago

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mercy
Its none of your bussiness,by the way if you open your mouth,just wait and see the way it will backfire on you,i have 1 st hand experience,wacha wenyewe wajisort.

30 days ago

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tryinghard
Never ever interfere with people who sleep under one blanket - direct translation from a tribal saying. Just tell the guy you are not amused or impressed by what he is doing & if he continues you will spill the beans but don't. just a threat.

31 days ago

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strawberryice
my dearest, i will soo advice you not to say anything to the wife, let her find out on her own or let someone else tell her, reason being that ure friends with both of them and it might not come out well, especially since the hubby in question knows that you know and then you go tell the wife, its not in ur way. theres one thing i would tell you though, that in matters of the heart let the couple deal with their own issues of fidelity and the like, cuz at the end of the day, even if hes found out, its likely they will come back together and you will end up being the third person, and your friendship will never be the same again and they willl call you a gossip and an interferer. it happend to my sister, she travelled and her boy friend was just doing different girls round the place or at least rumoured to be doing and one of my siblings told her, then she believed it but the minute she came the guy just conned her sweetly and it wasnt long and she forgot and forgave him because she loved him, and my sibling now became the bad one, please eh, i will advise you to leave the situation and let them handle it, just keep silent, or if theres a way you can arrange it so the wife will find out, without you being directly involved then do that, cuz he might bring the wife sti's and other things if hes not using protection

31 days ago

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kmpeter
in such instances the best thing is to keep your knowledge to yourself , or u will lose ur friend and the wife might not take any action. the best thing to do is to pass on the message thro some unknown email to the wife, but make sure yu have enough evidence to back up ur claim. it might be she also knows but decided to keep quiet about it. quite anumber of wives prefer to keep their families together even in the face of gross infidelity.

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